Tuesday, September 1, 2009

He-Man Woman Hater.

Ok im getting sick of this. Im getting sick of getting screwed over by so many people. and mainly girls. YES GIRLS!!!!! so far in my life i have been given the opportunity to have so many girls that i can call some of my best friends. but as of lately there have been few that i can put in that category. well more like one that is pretty much the best friend a guy can ask for. even thought some psycho girl thinks im a creeper. ( come on you dont even know me ughh) but what ever thats another story. so here is what i have come up with the experiences that i have encountered in the past couple of months. and ladies if im wrong please correct me. because so far the girls that i am getting my examples from arent helping your cause.

ok so one of the things that i have noticed is that no matter how nice a guy can be. like he can be the nicest guy that you have ever met. he will never be what you want to date. he's like a lamp. just there when you need him. you turn the lamp on just when you need the light that it gives. so therefore that guy is a lamp. you dont want to date him. you just in a way want to use him for one purpose. to make things easier for you. so he's a lamp. another is that you wont date the guy because your to heart broken to date. that you feel that you have no one in this world to make you happy. and when the perfect guy comes in the picture and he tells you that you are the most beautiful girl in the world and that he would give up everything that he owns just to have a chance at making you happy. just one chance to prove to you that true love exist. to show you that no matter what life throws at you he will be there to protect you from all the things that are wrong.

ok so what does a guy have to do to be happy. when did doing everything right and showing different people that you are willing to be what ever it is not good enough for them. when did being that " perfect guy" not what girls want. or is it that now a days girls like guys to treat them like crap. that girls always want a bad ass. or something like that. its a bunch of crap that no matter what the "good guy" does he will always be out shined but that stupid guy who doesnt care about you. who wont do what ever it takes to make you happy. even if its to leave a state just so that he can bring a smile to your face. just to see that beautiful smile on your face just because he walked back into your life.

i dont know much about life. or much about what to do about it. i only know a couple of things. and one of the things that i do know is what is in my heart. i know that there is no one that is to good for me. i know that i want to care about someone and have them return the favor. i know that one day being the " nice guy" will get me some where. i dont know where it will get me but i know that one day i'll be able to look at someone and tell them that i love them and they will say it back to me. i also know that not all girls are like this. i know that there are the ones that deserve the world. they deserve some one to love them more then they have never dreamed they could be loved like that. and that even though they are the perfect girl, the perfect friend and the perfect pretty much everything. i know that they will find someone who is worthy of them. because my friends, this girl. this perfect girl is what we all want in a wife. not because of her looks but because of her heart. is worth more then what we as men can dream of. she really is that amazing. :)

now i must say that guys arent perfect. or even close to that. i'll be the first to say. guys are stupid. we do things that dont make any sense. we do things that we know are stupid but do them anyways. so guys dont make it easy on the ladies to hate us. dont make it to where they have the excuse to not want anything to do with us. just remember to take it slowly. but at the same time hurry up and make your move, dont be afraid to tell her that she's pretty.and most importantly be a perfect gentleman. one day all of this will pay off. i dont know when it will. i dont know if it will for me. i just know that i will keep doing what i do best and keep making everyone happy. even thought it hurts more then any pain out there. i will keep doing what i do best. because that is who i am.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

You once had a girl... not a "perfect" girl... but a girl who truly loved you, who would have given the world for you. And because you've had that once... I'm sure you'll find it again. It might take sometime, but I have faith in you. Don't let the road to that "perfect" girl get you down. Just Sit back relax and enjoy the ride... that's something you taught me to do... now you'll just have to follow your own advice.